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0:00made a video on just deciding or deciding
0:03but I also wanna make another video kind of on deciding um
0:06Mary always one
0:07one to had a video like this maybe like a week ago or a few days ago
0:11um kind of related
0:12wanted to give her her flowers on that
0:13because I'm like noodleing in my brain also with my chat
0:18kind of about this sort of topic
0:20so the idea of deciding on what you want
0:27and she talks about the bounce back of it it
0:30it often comes after because you are fulfilling itself
0:35but it often comes from the noticing
0:40slash decision of having a lack of it regardless
0:45which is why we've talked about bounce back
0:48you are sitting here like
0:49consciously deciding all the time about what you think is true
0:53and what you think is true is not
0:55oh this is what I think is true
0:56but if you were sitting here noticing the lack of money
0:59and identify with the lack of money
1:01well the bounce back to the lack of money
1:04the opposite to the lack of money is money
1:07so when you take away that noticing lack of money
1:10and you just like that bounce back is money
1:13so then we sit here and we decide we have money
1:17so when we sit here and say like
1:18we don't have something or we notice the not having of something
1:22that is not just a neutral stance
1:26like you are essentially
1:27continuously fulfilling as source
1:30the noticing and then again
1:33the lack of money you are selecting lack even if you don't want to
1:40and a lot of people come to me and be like
1:42I don't understand why this happened
1:43I didn't want it to happen
1:44if you've been creating your whole life
1:46have you only ever had things that you wanted to happen
1:48no we don't just manifest
1:50we don't just create what we want
1:53we create what we notice we create who we are
1:57what we're identified with
1:58all these things so when you sit here and you stop identifying with
2:03I don't have money I don't have SP
2:06the the flip to that is I do
2:11when that identification with the lack is gone
2:15when your ident like the
2:17the counter to that is the having
2:21because you're fulfillment itself
2:23you can think of it as the
2:26the absence of the contradiction of fulfillment
2:30fulfillment is fulfilling something
2:32like it's when your package
2:35when your order is fulfilled
2:37you have it like
2:38if you if Amazon was like
2:40can you give us proof that your order wasn't fulfilled
2:43what are you supposed to do
2:44send back a picture of your empty fucking hand
2:46no like it's
2:49it's because you you don't
2:51you notice a lot you don't have it
2:52so the bounce back to that is having
2:56you could set if you had the picture and Amazon said
2:59can you send us a picture of your order being fulfilled
3:01you would send back the picture of your package
3:04and the reason why this feels so charged with SP is one
3:09because you give your all to an SP like you
3:12you have a you have a work personality
3:15you have a you have a work sect of yourself
3:17you know and or you have
3:18like a
3:19like a friend sect of yourself
3:20you might share a lot with your friends
3:22but we're not all out here sleeping with our friends okay
3:24same goes for family you have a family identity
3:27like you have a pet owner identity
3:30but there's a reason why we say like
3:33we give our all to relationships
3:34like even if you're giving your all at work
3:36like you're not sleeping beside your work
3:40I mean unless it's a co worker
3:41but that's that's a different thing
3:42but like you
3:43you're not giving your all to work
3:46you're giving all of your work identity to work
3:48which could be like
3:49too much of your identity sure
3:50but we are at our most vulnerable
3:53therefore at the like
3:54most reflected by our SP
3:59this this is why
4:02also why it's not just about like
4:05oh well
4:05then why don't I have every single person on the face of this earth
4:10after me you haven't sat there and said
4:14every single person on the face of this earth doesn't want me
4:19I don't walk down the street and see
4:24I don't walk down any streets
4:25but I don't drive down the road and see the other driver beside me
4:33and go uh
4:35they don't want me
4:37they're not interested in me
4:39I mean I guess I was in a
4:41if I was in a weird coming of age film fine
4:43but I didn't sit there and say they didn't want me
4:46so there's no bounce back of them wanting me for that
4:51there's no activation there's essentially nothing to pivot away from
4:57there's no opposite if we wanna talk in terms of like
4:59the human playground and duality
5:01but Mary talks about in her video
5:03and Mary feel free
5:04if you see this feel free to correct me on anything that you're like
5:08Ellie I didn't actually mean this
5:09but they
5:10she talks about how you have been holding them in the state of lack
5:13even once again
5:14even if it's unintentional
5:16I'm not saying this is intentional guys
5:17like it's even if you are holding them
5:20if you are holding them the state of lack like that
5:22like that let go
5:25swings back to having them
5:28it's not like oh
5:29let go neutral
5:31nothing
5:33it gets like no
5:35that would be forgetting like
5:36that would be the myth
5:37that would be the myth of I just decide and I forget about it
5:40I'm like how many of you are actually gonna forget about your SP
5:43that you can't go 2 seconds without thinking about
5:45come on come on
5:47give me a break
5:47the reason it feels separate is because you've been holding the lack
5:52even unintentionally
5:54most of us are not sitting here intentionally holding our SP and lack
5:58oh in dropping that it's
6:00it's removing the lack okay
6:04there's if it were actually neutrality
6:08it's neutrality feels like you're trying to like
6:11divide zero like
6:13it's like like 0 divided by 7 still
6:17it's still not a thing like
6:19there's essentially no bounce back
6:21there's no flip side to it because like
6:26the flip side of not thinking about
6:29if I already don't have something on my mind
6:30I'm not sitting there identifying a flip side to something on my mind
6:34that something not being on my mind
6:36if something is on my mind in a certain way
6:39then there's a flip side to that positive negative
6:42essentially like
6:43neutrality does not hold that duality
6:47oh that's kind of a bar
6:49when we say we are fulfillment
6:50what we mean is we are removing that like
6:57relation of like
6:59us doing something to get something
7:03like to make something that's not there
7:07we are essentially
7:10coming to terms with the fact that we are realizing that us
7:13as source should even like
7:15be pointing to my body but like
7:17cause that's a manifestation
7:18but like
7:18us as source is
7:20is generating the entire experience of everything in the first place
7:25therefore
7:27this with that with which you're
7:29oh my gosh
7:30can I speak this with which you're identifying with
7:34you guys know what I mean
7:35that was a horrible sentence
7:36so when we sit there and we like
7:40be still and rest in the knowing that like
7:43as source
7:46we are this
7:48and if we would sit there and remove the condition of not having it
7:54the bounce back would be we are this
7:57we could sit and rest in that knowing
8:00given that and the contradictions that come up would
8:04it's almost like they just like
8:05bounce right the fuck off of you and say oh
8:08what the fuck are you trying to say to me when I'm literally source
8:11like oh
8:12my god like oh
8:13crashed out doesn't matter
8:13I'm literally source I'm fulfillment of itself
8:15you think you can affect me
8:17you think the stupid contradictions gonna affect me
8:20okay okay okay
8:21that's why like
8:22you guys ask me all the time like
8:24why are you like
8:24not reactive it's just like
8:26a symptom of coming to terms with this like
8:32if if someone's acting stupid in front of me
8:35I'm sorry
8:37having cleaned up all my fucking assumptions on
8:40like when I'm in the gas station and men like
8:42comment on my toes sorry
8:45like I'm still gonna be like
8:47the other day he was like
8:49oh can I arm wrestle you for a place in line and I was like
8:55no like
8:57doesn't mean I'm gonna sit there and make
8:58ah yes
8:59I created this I'm so excited about this
9:02I'm excited that this thing that I don't really want talking to me
9:07is talking to me like no no
9:10but in terms of like the non react
9:12I don't feel the need to sit here and be like
9:15the lack what am I gonna do
9:17because I it was just a symptom of me holding that in lack
9:21and I can change it cause I'm neutral
9:22like I everything comes from me cause I'm source
9:25like I literally remove that condition
9:28it unveils itself
9:29so if I have that identification of black and I notice it
9:32I don't need to be like oh
9:33let me flip that thought let me do something really
9:35no I just
9:36I literally just sit there and remove
9:40what was that temporary identification with lack
9:43I literally just remember
9:44I don't I don't need to do anything I
9:46I stop being that when I stop being that
9:49I can rest in knowing I have what I want because I am it
9:55because I'm fulfillment
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Viral Breakdown
Hook (first 3 seconds)
- Verbatim opening: "made a video on just deciding or deciding but I also wanna make another video kind of on deciding um"
- Hook pattern: Scene / conversational ramble (raw, unscripted, "thinking out loud")
- Why it stops scroll: The speaker immediately signals two videos on the same topic — creating a "wait, what did I miss?" curiosity gap. The hesitation ("um," "kind of") feels authentic, not polished. Viewers stop because they sense real-time insight, not a scripted lecture.
Emotional Rhythm
- Curiosity — "made a video on deciding... I also wanna make another video" → viewer wonders: What's the difference?
- Intellectual tension — "you are sitting here like consciously deciding all the time about what you think is true and what you think is true is not" → pushes against common manifesting advice
- Relatable frustration — "I don't understand why this happened I didn't want it to happen" → mirroring the audience's pain point
- Climax (twist) — "the bounce back to that is having" + Amazon empty hand analogy → concrete, visual, funny
- Resonance — "we are at our most vulnerable therefore at the like most reflected by our SP" → emotional payoff, deep validation
- Empowerment release — "I literally just sit there and remove what was that temporary identification with lack" → actionable relief
- Climax moment: "the flip side of not thinking about if I already don't have something on my mind" → the "neutrality does not hold duality" bar (explicitly called out)
Keyword Density
| Keyword/Phrase | Frequency | Driver |
|---|---|---|
| "deciding / decide" | ~12 | Algorithmic (topic anchor) + emotional (agency) |
| "lack / lack of" | ~15 | Emotional pull (pain point) |
| "bounce back" | ~6 | Algorithmic (unique phrase, searchable) |
| "fulfillment / fulfilling" | ~10 | Emotional pull (resolution) |
| "identify / identification" | ~8 | Emotional pull (self-reflection) |
| "source" | ~5 | Algorithmic (niche community keyword) |
| "SP" (specific person) | ~7 | Algorithmic (targeted audience) |
| "notice / noticing" | ~9 | Emotional pull (mindfulness) |
Why It Spreads
- Contradicts common manifesting advice — "I just decide and I forget about it" → calls out the myth directly. This sparks debate and saves. Line: "how many of you are actually gonna forget about your SP that you can't go 2 seconds without thinking about"
- Uses a visceral, funny analogy — Amazon empty hand picture → makes an abstract concept (fulfillment) concrete and shareable. Line: "send back a picture of your empty fucking hand" → high rewatch value, clip-able.
- Names another creator (Mary) — "Mary always one to had a video like this... wanted to give her her flowers" → cross-pollination. Fans of Mary will watch, share, and comment. This creates community glue.
- Raw, unscripted delivery — "oh my gosh can I speak this" / "that was a horrible sentence" → feels like eavesdropping on a genius in real-time. Viewers share because it's not polished — it's vulnerable.
- Climax line is explicitly self-aware — "oh that's kind of a bar" → the creator signals the moment of insight. Viewers quote this line, turning it into a meme/mantra. Line: "neutrality does not hold that duality"
What You Can Steal
- Call out a myth your audience believes — Find the common "just forget about it" advice in your niche and explicitly say "that's a myth." Use a concrete analogy (Amazon empty hand) to make the counterpoint stick.
- Name-drop another creator in your niche — "Mary made a video on this... wanted to give her flowers." This borrows social proof, triggers cross-audience sharing, and builds community. Do it genuinely, not as a plug.
- Leave the "ums" and "horrible sentences" in — Raw, unpolished delivery signals authenticity. When you stumble, keep it. Viewers feel like they're watching a breakthrough, not a performance. The "that was a horrible sentence" moment is actually a retention tool.
