0:00my first niece,
0:00emma,
0:00she was radiant in her hospital bed,
0:02holding that tiny,
0:03perfect little girl.
0:03meet sofia rose,
0:04she said with the biggest smile.
0:05I literally felt my heart stop.
0:07what you just said,
0:08sofia roses?
0:08she repeated
0:09how nothing was wrong.
0:10she's not perfect.
0:10the name sounded so right.
0:11when he saw her face,
0:12you were right.
0:13it's such a beautiful name.
0:13I stayed there
0:14holding withered flowers,
0:15-eight weeks pregnant with my own daughter,
0:16watching my sister pack the baby
0:17who now had my name,
0:18the name I've been planning for nearly a decade.
0:20tyler was taking pictures,
0:21the nurses were pampering the baby
0:22and I felt like I was
0:23watching my dreams be stolen in real time.
0:25um, that was my name,
0:26I whispered.
0:26she looked at me with a fake mess.
0:27like this?
0:28we have never decided anything official
0:29and she just looked like a sofia when she was born,
0:31you understand,
0:31it is not?
0:32you will find something even better.
0:33get out of that hospital room
0:34crying so much that I could barely see to drive.
0:36my husband, jake,
0:36was furious when I told him.
0:38she can't just steal your name,
0:39he repeated,
0:39but legally,
0:40she could.
0:40there is no copyright on baby names.
0:42two weeks later,
0:43I gave birth to my own perfect daughter,
0:44and while holding her in the delivery room,
0:46looking at its tiny and perfect face,
0:47I knew exactly what her name should be,
0:49not a reservation option.
0:50not a second choice,
0:51but something that would remind my sister
0:52every day of what she had done.
0:54I named my daughter Emma Rose.
0:55now,
0:55every family gathering is absolutely hilarious.
0:57emma can pass me the salt.
0:58ah, wait,
0:58which emma?
0:58does emma need to change her diaper?
0:59the big emma or the small emma?
1:01is emma crying?
1:01the baby or the sister?
1:02my sister can't complain,
1:03because that would mean
1:04admit she stole my name
1:05she is visibly
1:06irritated
1:06every time someone needs to clarify which emma
1:08are talking.
1:08at my daughter's first birthday party,
1:10three different relatives
1:11wish my sister a happy birthday
1:12instead of for my baby.
1:13the best part is that my little ema
1:14is already showing
1:15signs of being your favorite granddaughter.
1:16she is smiling,
1:17sleeps well and doesn't scream during family photos.
1:19like his cousin sofia,
1:19my mother keeps saying things like,
1:21Ea is such a nice baby,
1:22pack my daughter
1:23and my sister's face turns red every time.
1:25last week,
1:26at Sunday dinner,
1:26my dad was playing with the little ema and said,
1:28this ema is definitely the best ema in the family.
1:30my sister got so mad she left early.
1:31tyler sent me a message later
1:33saying she cried
1:33all the way home.