0:00my babysitter was secretly
0:01teaching my five year old what to do when his real parents
0:04came to get him and I only found out because my son
0:06mentioned it to me like completely casually
0:08like it was a normal thing
0:10so we have been using our babysitter Talia for about eight months
0:13she was 27 I think maybe closer to 28
0:17and she was recommended to me by my best friend and that was honestly
0:20the biggest reason why I had trusted her because I trust
0:23nobody with my son my husband and I both work but I work partly
0:28from home so we didn't need somebody every day
0:31then one night Eli and I were talking about emergencies
0:33and I genuinely do not remember how we got onto this subject
0:37but I think there had been like a fire
0:38drill or something at a school
0:40because he asked me who would come and get him if me or his dad
0:43couldn't I just told him the usual stuff if something
0:45scary happens you stay with a teacher a police
0:48officer mommy or daddy one of his grandparents
0:50you don't just leave with somebody
0:52because they tell you that they know us or that you can or that they're safe
0:55any Lego's but what if my real mommy comes and I have to go with her
0:59and I said what and then he repeated it he said if my real mommy comes
1:03and I actually laughed because like not because it was funny but
1:07I thought this was some five year old misunderstanding
1:10where maybe him and Talia had been
1:12like talking about adoption or a movie or something but I said buddy
1:16I am your real mommy and he goes I know you're my mommy here
1:20and that completely changed the way that this conversation felt to me
1:23and I asked him what he meant by Mommy here and
1:26he told me that Talia had said that there were people who were
1:28trying to find him for a long time and if they ever came for him
1:32he might not recognize them because the last time he saw them he was very little
1:36I don't know how to react at this point because he's five and he's watching my face so I'm just going oh
1:43okay what else did she say and he tells me that they practice
1:46so I said practice what and he gets up and he walks to his bedroom
1:51his bedroom is on the first floor of our house mind you
1:53and there's a safety latch on his window and it's not anything fancy
1:57it's just one of those little things that keep a kid from pushing
1:59the window all the way open and falling out
2:01so Eli reached up and he shows me exactly how to move it
2:05and then he opens his window
2:07I had no idea that he knew how to do that
2:09this was not something that my husband or I had showed him Talia had
2:14according to Eli
2:15if his other family came while we were home and we wouldn't let him go
2:18he wasn't supposed to use the front door
2:20he was supposed to go through his bedroom window
2:22so I remember asking him
2:24why wouldn't Mommy let you go and he said because you'd be sad
2:27like that was the issue
2:29and then he tells me I have my bag too and I said what bag do you have and there was this backpack
2:35shoved between two of the plastic bins in the back of his closet
2:38and at this point
2:39this is where I called my husband because I wasn't gonna keep doing this by myself
2:43the backpack wasn't like packed like a kid that was playing runaway
2:47there was actually clothes in it that fit him a couple of snacks
2:50a toothbrush his little
2:51stuffed fox that he sleeps
2:52with when he goes to his grandparents house
2:54and there was a folder in the bottom of it
2:57and that is what scared me the most because kids pack weird things
3:00a five year old might might like put like three dinosaurs and a Pop
3:04Tart in his backpack and tell you that he's moving to Florida
3:07but that was not what this was
3:09inside the folders were actual copies of his medical records
3:12some of them were things that we had seen before like vaccination
3:15schedules allergies his pediatrician
3:17and then there were even hospital
3:19records from the hospital that he was born at like his birthday
3:22was right his weight was right the time was right
3:24my name was right there and my husband's name was right there too
3:27but on one of the documents there was
3:29another last name connected
3:30to him and I'm gonna change the name because obviously
3:33I don't wanna put it out there but it said baby boy
3:36Scott will you Scott we are not the Scotts nobody in our family
3:41on either sides of our family has the last name
3:43Scott matter of fact we don't even know anybody
3:45with the last name Scott so when I asked Eli
3:48about it he told me that Talia had been teaching him his name
3:52Eli Scott same first name but different last names and apparently
3:56she would ask him
3:57what name do you use when your other family comes for you
4:00and that was the answer
4:01and at this point my husband wanted to call the police immediately but
4:04I wanted to call Talia first and maybe that's stupid
4:07of me but I just wanted to hear what she was going to say and how she was possibly going to explain this
4:12so I did call her and I put her on speaker and I asked
4:14why there was a backpack hidden inside of Eli's closet
4:17and she was quiet for a second and then she said did he show you
4:20and that was her first response
4:22not what backpack not confusion not denial just did he show you
4:27so I asked her why she was telling my son that he had
4:29another family and she just said
4:31I never told him that you weren't his parents
4:34which was a specific answer
4:35that made me even angrier
4:37because that wasn't what I asked I asked
4:39why are you telling him he had another family
4:41so I said you taught him to climb out his bedroom window
4:45she didn't deny that either and then she said
4:47you need to ask the hospital what happened the night that you lie
4:50was born and my husband was standing
4:52right next to me and he goes what the hell does that mean
4:55she said that she wasn't gonna talk about it over the phone so we told her to come over and she wouldn't
4:59so my husband naturally told her that we're calling the police
5:01and she just said okay and then she hung up
5:04she obviously never came back to the house after that
5:06but police came and they took the folder
5:08and we contacted the hospital and by then we were thinking
5:11the worst possible thing
5:13was Eli switched at birth was there another family he had somewhere
5:17had we somehow brought home the wrong baby and nobody
5:20knew for five years there had actually been
5:22another baby boy that was born close to the same time at E as Eli
5:26like two doors down at the same hospital
5:29and remembering that didn't help my mental state at all
5:32and then we found out that Talia's mother
5:33had worked in labor and delivery at the hospital where Eli was born
5:37now after learning that I think that was the point where I officially
5:40stopped sleeping because now it didn't feel like Talia had invented
5:43some random delusion out of nowhere
5:45she had gotten real hospital information somehow
5:48so my husband and I did the DNA testing
5:50and I don't think I've ever been so afraid
5:53of opening an email in my entire life
5:55but Eli is ours biologically mine biologically my husband
5:59there was no switch and somehow that answer made everything
6:03feel more confusing instead of less
6:05Talia was questioned and her explanation was that her mother
6:08had said things that made her believe that something
6:10went wrong at the hospital her mother denies
6:13ever telling her that Eli belonged to another family nobody
6:16found evidence that
6:17another family was actually on their way to come and get him either
6:20but that still doesn't explain
6:21why Talia had packed a bag it doesn't explain
6:23why she taught our five year old to leave through his bedroom window
6:26if his parents told him not to go and definitely
6:28doesn't explain why there are hospital documents
6:31that we have never seen before so this story was submitted by Camila
6:35and she asked me to change some of the names in here
6:37because the hospital records are still being looked into
6:40but DNA has confirmed that Eli is biologically hers
6:44but she says that nobody has been able to give her a clear
6:46answer as to why the second last name was
6:49attached to one of his birth records or
6:51who exactly Talia believed was eventually coming to get her son