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How men harvest or siphon your energy. High standards and boundaries ...
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0:00As a woman, you need to be able to tell the difference
0:02when a man is harvesting your energy
0:05and when he's siphoning your energy.
0:07When a man is harvesting your energy,
0:09he is coming to you to get you to give your energy to him freely.
0:15Keyword, freely.
0:18Harvesting is the act of collecting from a natural source.
0:23So, for example,
0:25when you go to the beach
0:26and you collect stones or seashells from the beach,
0:30you are harvesting. The beach is giving you her resources for free.
0:36It's free for the taking.
0:39Another example is a garden.
0:41When a garden grows its herbs,
0:44its fruits, its vegetables,
0:46it is free for you to come to the garden and pick all that it's grown.
0:50Right? You're harvesting.
0:52Women do not realize how much of their energy,
0:56how much of their life force,
0:58they give away for free.
1:01So how does a man harvest your energy?
1:04One way is just by getting your attention.
1:06He'll reach out to you through social media.
1:10When a man reaches out to you through social media,
1:12he wants your attention. And when you give him the attention,
1:16he is harvesting it. He is collecting.
1:19And men like this who reach out to women on social media,
1:22they will reach out to multiple women,
1:25and they're harvesting from multiple sources.
1:28All these women are giving away their energy to this man freely.
1:33The reason why he's doing it for personal growth.
1:36He's harvesting the energy For empowerment,
1:39women need to realize how much of their energy and their attention
1:43empowers men. How much of your energy helps them grow.
1:49Another way a man will harvest a woman's energy
1:52is by being friends with you.
1:54Most men that reach out to you wanting to be friends,
1:59they're actually interested in you sexually,
2:02but they know they can't get you.
2:04So they will settle with being friends with you.
2:06Just to be able to harvest your energy,
2:09just to be able to have the access to you and to get your attention.
2:13This is considered ethical because you are giving it for free.
2:18Okay, there's a lot of other ways that a man will harvest your energy,
2:21but let's move on to siphoning.
2:23When a man is siphoning your energy,
2:26it is the purpose of getting access to you and depleting you,
2:32taking your energy, and usually it's without your consent.
2:35So they will manipulate you or inflict pain on you to get that energy.
2:41Siphoning is a lot more diabolical than harvesting.
2:44It's the act of consuming.
2:48They don't just wanna come to your beach and collect some stones
2:52and collect some seashells.
2:54They want it all.
2:57So think of a well,
2:59a well that has water in it.
3:02Someone who wants to harvest will come and throw their bucket in there,
3:06collect their water, got what they wanted,
3:08and then bounce.
3:09That's someone who harvested.
3:12Someone who wants to siphon you is looking at that Well,
3:16and they don't just want a bucket.
3:18They want all the water that's in there.
3:22The men who want to harvest your energy,
3:24they will flirt with you, they will show interest,
3:27and then they'll go ghost.
3:29Because their purpose was to just collect
3:32and harvest the energy that they wanted from you,
3:35to build themselves up, and then they bounce.
3:39The thing with these type of men,
3:40the ones that harvest your energy,
3:41is every once in a while,
3:43they'll come back and get your attention again
3:46to see if you're still a source that they can tap into.
3:50When a man wants to siphon you,
3:52he's gonna try to get into a romantic relationship with you.
3:55They will want to get your attention,
3:57they'll show interest, they will flirt,
3:59and they will really pursue you.
4:02He's gonna pursue you because he really does want you,
4:05but not in the way that you think.
4:07He doesn't want you. He wants your energy.
4:10He wants your life force.
4:12So these type of men will love bomb the hell out of you
4:15and future fake you.
4:17They will tell you whatever you need to hear.
4:20They will study you
4:22and make sure that they're the man that you want them to be.
4:27Promising an engagement down the line,
4:29promising a marriage, promising a family.
4:34All right? Everything that you want,
4:36everything that you dream of in a relationship.
4:38He will give you the appearance,
4:40and he'll even act it out.
4:41He'll even do it. Will love Bomb you and future fake you
4:44because he really wants you to open up.
4:47And he not only wants you to open up to him,
4:50he also wants you to, like, grow.
4:53You know what I mean? When a woman is in love,
4:56she glows differently. That's because the light inside of her is really,
5:00really shining. He's essentially fattening you up to consume you.
5:06Think of the story of Hansel and Gretel.
5:09Do you remember how the witch kept feeding Hansel candy
5:13to fatten him up before she would consume him?
5:17That's essentially what he's doing.
5:19Another example is from the movie Stardust.
5:22In the movie, there is a fallen star,
5:24and there are these witches that are hunting her
5:26because they want to consume her heart.
5:28They want to consume her light because it makes them more beautiful,
5:32it makes them younger, it gives them vitality.
5:35Now, there's a scene in the movie
5:38where the witch was able to get close to the star,
5:41but she didn't just attack the star right away. No,
5:44she had to lure the star in,
5:46make her feel comfortable,
5:49make her feel warm, make her feel special.
5:53Because when someone feels special,
5:55they feel safe. They're able to open up and they glow.
5:58The witch's plan was, once she sees that glow,
6:02that's when she delivers the attack.
6:05That's when she consumes her.
6:06That's what these men will do.
6:08They will fatten you up or they Will get you to glow,
6:12and then they'll start to siphon you.
6:14He will start to say little things
6:16to make you insecure about your body.
6:19He will start checking out girls in front of you
6:22and acting like he it was no big deal,
6:24just to make you insecure about yourself.
6:26He'll chip away at your confidence.
6:29He will start doing things and behaving in ways that he never used to,
6:33just to hurt you so that he can siphon your energy.
6:36And he'll keep building it up,
6:38building it up. And then in the end,
6:39he will do something big that will really hurt you.
6:42To deliver the final blow and deplete you of all your energy.
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